Feeling Overwhelmed?
Here's How to Start Downsizing Without Losing Your Mind
Posted: June 13, 2025 by JACQUELINE MANITAROS
Let’s be honest, downsizing sounds simple, until you actually start looking around and realize… you’ve got a lot of stuff. I see this all the time with the wonderful seniors I work with. You've lived a full life, made memories, and collected a home full of pieces that tell your story.
But when it’s time to move into something smaller, whether it’s a condo, retirement community, or just a more manageable home — the question becomes: where do I even begin?
Here are some steps I walk my clients through that help make the process smoother and a lot less stressful:
1. Start early (earlier than you think)
Give yourself time. Downsizing is not a weekend project. Start small, one drawer, one room, one decision at a time. This isn’t a race.
2. Sort items into 4 simple categories
To keep it manageable, I recommend:
- Keep (what you actually use or love)
- Gift (items you want to pass down to family or friends)
- Donate (things that still have life in them)
- Let go (this one’s the hardest, but necessary)
You’ll be surprised how freeing it feels once you start letting go.
3. Ask yourself the right questions
- Have I used this in the last year?
- Would I buy this again today?
- Does this item have a place in my next home?
If the answer is no, it might be time to part ways with it, and that’s okay.
4. Bring family in early (but set boundaries)
Let your kids or grandkids know you’re downsizing and see if they want any sentimental pieces. But remember: you don’t have to keep everything “just in case” someone might want it someday.
5. Get support, emotional and practical
Let’s be real, this isn’t just about stuff. It’s emotional. You’re closing a chapter and stepping into a new one. So be kind to yourself. And don’t be afraid to ask for help. There are organizers, donation pick-up services, and yes… Realtors like me, who get it and are here to help every step of the way.
6. Focus on the why
It’s not about what you’re losing, it’s about what you’re gaining: Less to manage. More freedom. A lifestyle that suits you now.
Ready to Begin?
If you’re thinking of downsizing and don’t know where to start, I’d love to chat. Whether you’re months away or just exploring options, I’m here to make this transition easier and more empowering.
Let’s talk when you’re ready, no pressure, just real guidance.
Jacqueline Manitaros, Realtor, SRES, ABR
Coldwell Banker The Real Estate Centre
Mobile: (416) 669-3192
Email: jacquelinem@wearetrec.com